tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41035789824257290162024-03-13T19:33:49.086-04:00Beautiful Living I write about all things home and living well. Slow down, look around, and embrace the art of living beautifully.Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.comBlogger525125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-38112304691941978872016-12-15T08:48:00.002-05:002022-04-20T11:16:32.329-04:00The Blog Has Moved!Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-14788313663935453142016-12-01T10:53:00.000-05:002016-12-02T07:24:52.244-05:00An Update and a Recommendation<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The blog is FINALLY moving to another platform. More freedom, more perks, easier navigation, and it's all happening soon! So, if I'm offline for a little while, you'll know why. I'm not disappearing, I'm just... moving. And moving takes time. I have to unload boxes and boxes of notes and photos, my laptop, my stacks of books, a comfy chair, and my many notebooks. And all during the holidays! I may need to be resuscitated by the time I'm done.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">While I'm away, I'd like to recommend an interesting and funny read. <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/talking-as-fast-as-i-can-lauren-graham/1124435372?ean=9780425285176">Talking as Fast as I Can</a></i> is this month's book pick for all you Gilmore Girl fans and those just beginning to recognize the talent of Lauren Graham. This his her first work of non-fiction, and follows her novel, <i>Someday, Someday Maybe. </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Read it! It's almost better than Friday night dinners!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/10/what-heck-does-that-mean.html">What the Heck Does That Mean?</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/delicious-reads-delicious.html">Delicious!</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/08/old-habits-die-hard.html">Old Habits Die Hard</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/worshipping-at-alter-of-elizabeth.html">Worshipping at the Alter of Elizabeth Gilbert</a>. </span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-58521099249311164522016-11-29T14:28:00.000-05:002016-12-07T14:52:58.040-05:00Forgetfulness Is a State of Mind<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">This past
weekend, as I was unpacking Christmas ornaments, I came upon a gift—a pen set—I
had bought Kate more than a year and a half ago. I’m forever putting things
away in secret places where I “won’t forget”. I searched the house again and
again and could not find it for the life of me. I wondered if I had packed it
in a box, threw it away(!), or never ordered it to begin with. I finally gave
up and ordered another so she would have it Christmas morning. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">But over a year
later, there it sat. Tucked in a drawer with other Christmas decorations. Practically
in plain sight. Mocking me. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I am forever
forgetting where I placed my glasses (they’re often on my head) and who I told
the latest family information—daughter number one or daughter number two? I’d
wager I repeat myself about 75% of the time. “Mom! You already told me
this.” “Right, right. I need to tell your sister.” All perfectly normal, I’m
told repeatedly by friends and family who have gone through the same bouts of
forgetfulness. All perfectly normal, I’m told repeatedly by my doctor. After
all, I’m of “that age”. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I pride myself
in keeping my brain sharp. I read and write and want to know things. I can
recite 70s song lyrics on a dime. Remember the exact measurements of a recipe I
haven’t cooked in a while. Recall childhood memories that are more than four decades
old. But sometimes, David will ask me if I remember something, and I’m at a
complete loss. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I know this is
all a trick. Some twisted karmic game someone is playing just to keep me on my
toes. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I don’t think
it’s very funny. Well, sometimes I do. Thankfully I can laugh at myself as I
look in the mirror—my face a bit droopier, the crow’s feet more pronounced—and
I laugh at the person in the mirror. “Still got my sense of humor.” Joy.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">So, the next
time I wander into a room and then stand there wondering why on earth I’ve gone into the room in the first place, or try to give a name to the doohickey I’m holding in
my hand, I’ll remember this: 1) The second half of my life is supposed to be
better than the first half. I’ll keep you posted. 2) I know more stuff, of
course my floppy disk is full. (Oops, hard drive.) 3) I don’t have to remember
everything. That’s what Google is for. 4) I can use cheat sheets—i.e. the notes
app on my phone. 5) I’ll relish in selective memory by tossing out all the bad
stuff. 6) And I’ll keep reading, writing, and learning as long as the
information will stick. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">That's all I can remember for now.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/life-in-my-40s.html">Life in My 40s</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/hormones.html">Hormones!</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/08/im-not-ready.html">I'm Not Ready</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-60686798161167004602016-11-22T11:20:00.001-05:002016-11-22T11:20:59.825-05:00New Thanksgiving Traditions<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A couple of weeks ago, my mother handed me a box filled with old photographs and a stack of letters written by my great grandfather. As she handed me each picture, she explained who was who as she told me stories whenever a certain photograph triggered a memory. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I am the oldest, the keeper of family history, and I guess she thought it was time I had these last few bits. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">As soon as I could, I went through the box of letters and arranged them in chronological order. I randomly selected a letter and began to read it, and it just so happened it was about my father. My great grandfather wrote a letter to his son</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">my grandfather</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">—</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">once a month (sometimes more) for twenty years starting in 1958. At least the ones I have anyway. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Throughout my childhood, I remember my father telling me stories about "Pop". How he traveled the country, loved adventure, and wrote a mean letter. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I wondered if perhaps this was where my love of writing came from. Now I had some proof.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The first letter is dated March 12, 1958. He wrote about camping in an isolated canyon in the Laguna Mountains. The road in was only dirt, and with an impending storm already pelting the roadway with rain, he knew the narrow access road was not built to withstand heavy rains or mountain wash. <i>"I didn't like the look of things, as the rain was coming steady and heavy, and everything was turning to slimy mud... So I warmed up the engine good and took off up that steep climb in one wild dash, with the car skidding and slating like a happy pup wagging its tail." </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">What a gift to have been given, not only a piece of my family's history, but a chance to get to know someone I had only remembered meeting once in my life. Someone who shares the same love of words and storytelling. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So this Thanksgiving, once the dishes have been cleared away and the last of the pie has been dished out, I will open up the box and begin to read. I will share as many letters as people want to hear and then savor the rest throughout the season. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I will give thanks for the people at the table, those who are not, and all who have come before us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Have a blessed Thanksgiving!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also enjoy...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2013/11/my-thanksgiving-menu.html">My Thanksgiving Menu</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2013/11/the-thankful-tree.html">The Thankful Tree</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/11/thanksgiving-leftovers.html">Thanksgiving Leftovers</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2011/12/always-remember.html">Always Remember</a></span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-78190920688549252442016-11-15T12:21:00.003-05:002016-11-17T11:15:58.548-05:00The Ups and Downs of the Empty Nest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">This past
weekend, the girls were home early. Bags were dropped, clothes needed cleaning,
and the dishwasher was full. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">In the
beginning, when this whole empty nest thing started, I was more than happy to
resume my role as doting mother. I made them nutritious dinners. I made sure
their sheets were freshly laundered each weekend they were home. After all, the
whole reason they came home so often was to balance their world of tests and
deadlines, stress and decision making, with a place they felt nurtured and
refreshed. And I was more than happy to oblige.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">But, when the
house was silent once again, I began to refocus my energy.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">At first, David
and I were warriors. We tackled project after project in record time. I was back to my ruthless cleaning rituals. And I started to create
a new schedule—one that worked for both my business and my new personal life. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Then I started
to slow down and look around. We don’t get a lot of alone time when the girls
are home. And there is always something that needs our attention and there
always will be. Free weekends became dedicated to catching up on forgotten books,
working on a left-over project, or lolling on the sofa watching a movie together.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Once the girls were
home again, it was all about them. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The back and
forth was a bit unnerving at first. I got rattled when they weren’t home and again
when they were. It would take me a good day on either end to switch gears.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Now I’m
learning to balance the in between. When they are home, I don’t worry about a
tidy house or cooking each night. When they head back to school, I appreciated the time I
had with them and simply get back to work. I rediscovered alone time. Time to
be present with myself that I thought I would never embrace again as I had done years
ago. I reconnected with an old friend and tackled an important project I longed
to accomplish. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">This is a huge
improvement from a few years ago. If you remember, I was <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/12/i-survived-first-year-of-college.html">coming unhinged</a> at the
thought of them leaving. The contradictory emotions, from sorrow to relief,
loss to exhilaration, has touched us all in one way or another. But we keep on moving forward. As everyone does.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The
relationships I have with my children as adults have been more rewarding than I
could have imagined. Getting to know them as they learn and grow and change, is
an amazing experience. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I take joy in
knowing that the give and take and ups and downs are an inevitable not-so-scary-after-all
part of the process.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">There’s still
plenty of parenting to do—it’s a never-ending job—but I’m up for the challenge.
And for that, I am eternally grateful. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/08/im-not-ready.html">I'm Not Ready</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/05/mean-girls.html">Mean Girls</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/its-been-quite-week.html">It's Been Quite a Week</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-7309391020337436232016-11-07T12:25:00.001-05:002016-11-17T11:16:25.369-05:00I'm Not a Fan of Daylight Savings Time<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I should be happy that we gained an hour of time this past weekend, but what I really am is exhausted. And every year, it's the same thing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">It was bad enough that I was already starting to settle on my couch by 7:00, the yawning already starting at 6:00. But now I'll have to forgo my late afternoon walks unless I wear a headlamp, not to mention getting in line in time for the early bird special. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Are we really decreasing energy use, saving lives, or reducing crime rates? The jury is still out. There are naysayers and supporters on both sides. There's even a petition in congress titled, "Please stop messing with our schedules". </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I concur.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The US adopted DST during World War I to save fuel, not to give farmers an extra hour of daylight as most of us were taught back in the olden days. Now the reason it will never go away is that it's simply good for business. When the clocks spring forward, retailers benefit from that extra hour. And that, as they say, is that. Fine. But why can't we ignore the whole fall back cycle? I don't think anyone would argue that getting a little extra sleep in the morning because the suns not up yet is a good thing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So thank you Big Business for waking me at 4:00, all bleary-eyed and not quite so ready for my day. And we all can thank them for our sour moods, tired bodies, messed up schedules and sleep patterns. Take heart. I've read it will work itself out in the next two weeks as our bodies adjust. Until then (and until we spring forward once again), it's extremely important that we still get outside whenever we can and find the sun. Keep your regular sleep schedule. Drive safely. Turn on all the lights in the house. And most importantly, stay active. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">And it never hurts to keep your <a href="http://whatstrending.com/funny/23266-internet-love-hate-daylight-savings-time">sense of humor</a>. (And check out these <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/explore/daylight-savings-time/">pins</a>.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/hormones.html">Hormones!</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/03/its-quiet-ones-you-have-to-look-out-for.html">It's the Quiet Ones You Have to Look Out For</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/08/stress-and-anxiety-triggers.html">Stress and Anxiety Triggers</a>. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">It's November 1st. And that means, it's National Novel Writing Month! <a href="http://nanowrimo.org/">NaNoWriMo</a> began in 1999 to encourage writers to get it on the page. From November 1st until 11:59 on November 30th, your goal is to write a 50,000-word novel. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The beauty behind this approach is that you are given a start date (now), an end date, and encouragement from the many participants who jump right in, as well as <a href="http://nanowrimo.org/pep-talks">Pep Talks</a> from published authors. And that's what you need to do. Jump. Don't think about it. Forget spelling and grammar for just a little while. Simply write your story each and every day. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Think it can't be done? Here are 18 published novels written during NaNoWriMo.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b><i>The Beautiful Land </i>by Alan Averill</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Alan's novel</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> was started during NaNoWriMo. </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"I think
writers just don’t trust themselves enough to realize that first drafts are
often much closer to completion than they know, </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I’d guess that at
least 80% of the first draft is in the final draft." </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b><i>Wool</i> by Hugh Howey</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">After writing the novel during NaNoWriMo, Howey originally self-published his novel. It became a New York Times bestseller, was republished by Simon and Schuster, and the film rights were picked up by Ridley Scott. </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"NaNoWriMo has been the greatest thing to
happen to me as a writer."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><b><i>The Night Circus</i> by Erin Morgenstern</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Almost 121,000 words in length, this book was written over three seperate NaNoWriMo sessions proving you don't have to do it all in one sitting if you don't want to. Morgenstern tells us to </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"Take risks" and
"Let yourself be surprised."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b><i>Like Water for Elephants </i>by Sara Gruen</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Despite a few</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> serious
setbacks, Gruen forged on. "We can do this," she promises. "However far behind you are,
take comfort in knowing that there is somebody else out there in the same boat,
and look for that next fun scene. And then the next. And if that doesn’t work,
set someone on fire. In your book, of course."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b><i>Fangirl </i>by Rainbow Rowell</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Rowell</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> was already
a published author before she tried her hand at NaNoWriMo. In fact, she was a bit skeptical about the process. "It seemd like something that amateur writers would do. Or young writers. People who needed to be tricked into finishing their books. I'd already written two books by October 2011, and sold them to publishers, and I couldn't imagine writing either of them--or anything good--in a month." She went on to say, "Normally I start each writing session by rewriting whatever I wrote in my last session. With Fangirl... I picked up where I left off and kept moving. I never looked back." Good advice indeed!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;"><strong><em>Cinder, Scarlet </em>and <em>Cress</em> by Marissa Meyer</strong></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial;">The first three books in the Luna Chronicles (<em>Cinder, Scarlet, </em>and<em> Cress</em>) all started life as NaNoWriMo novels. Actually, they were all drafted out during a single NaNoWriMo." Yep. You read that correctly. All THREE books were written during ONE November session. So if you're perhaps "both geek and chronic overachiever.", as Meyer has stated, you could have a best-selling series in you!</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Persistance of Memory </i>by Amelia Atwater-Rhodes</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Take the Reins</i><b> </b>by Jessica Burkhart</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Livvie Owen Lived Here</i> by Sarah Doolay</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Losing Faith</i> by Denise Jaden</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>The Compound</i> by Stephanie Stuve-Bodeen</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>The Hungry Season</i> by T. Greenwood</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Olivia Bean, Trivia Queen</i> by Donna Gephart</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>The God Patent</i> by Ransom Stephens</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>The Forest of Hands and Teeth</i> by Carrie Ryan</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><i>Don't Let Me Go</i> by J.H. Trimble</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">And like most of the authors will tell you, you need a break from writing every now and then. Whenever a writer isn't writing, she/he is reading. This months book pick is <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/jane-austen-education-william-deresiewicz/1100093611?ean=9780143121251"><i>A Jane Austen Education</i></a>. For all of you Janites out there, here is the perfect companion to your collection. And for all you naysayers, this is the book that will make sense of all those "pretty stories". A must-read either way. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/06/updated-classics.html">Updated Classics</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/the-anatomy-of-writer_13.html">The Anatomy of a Writer</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/11/10-things-to-do-in-november.html">10 Things to do in November</a>, </span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-73778288738823400462016-10-27T12:49:00.003-04:002016-11-18T07:17:34.414-05:00Life Lessons in My 40s<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Victor Hugo
called 40 “the old age of youth”. Conventional wisdom tells you that you’re
still reasonably young, just a bit more seasoned than you used to be. As you
transition into your 40s, you’re moving into the second act—and there are no
more dress rehearsals. To me, once you’ve reached your 40s, it means freedom!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">During this
decade, you realize you’ve actually managed to learn and grow a bit, often
without knowing it. And even though some of the things I’ve learned will no
doubt seem rather laughable when I hit my 50s, I’ll take what I can get. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I am at an age
where I finally worry less (could care less) about what people think and feel.
Not that I’m callous about other people’s feelings, just the opposite, actually—I
feel more deeply. But I’m confident in my own convictions. I am clear about
other people’s motives. I’m no longer afraid to try and fail, or let others try
to strike me down (or worse, revel in kicking me while I’m down), I just get
back up again. I am content, carefree, and in control.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">And I don’t feel
the need to be someone I’m not. This quote says it all: “More about you is
universal than not universal. My unscientific assessment is that we are 95
percent cohort, 5 percent unique. Knowing this is a bit of a disappointment,
and a bit of a relief.” (Writer, Pamela Drucker.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">By your 40s,
you don’t want to be with the cool people; you want to be with <i>your</i> people. High school was so long
ago. You learn who the important people are in your life. And for me, it’s
family. They will always be the ones I want to hang out with. The ones who get me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I’ve realized
that no matter what happens, it’s not the end of the world. It’s taken me a
very long time to embrace this notion, but it’s true. Life is messy. And I’m so
over trying to make everything not so messy. I now want to take risks, let the chips
fall where they may, jump before I look, and embrace every precious moment. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">As they say,
with age comes wisdom. Here's what I believe I've learned so far. </span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Listen to your
body. It’s wiser than you know. I’ve taken care of myself two times in my life:
when I was pregnant and once the children were almost grown. I wished I had
listened more closely in between those times.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The time is
now. Regret nothing. If you have a hidden talent, or you’ve purposely held back
who you truly are, you must come clean. Say it out loud, write it down, own it.
Being a <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/are-you-late-bloomer.html">Late Bloomer</a> does not mean you have missed the boat.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Learn from
everything. And don’t rush the process of moving through obstacles. You’ll get
where you need to, in time. Trust in this. I know it's hard.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Breathe. Live
in the moment as this is all we have. This is a lesson I still need help with
from time to time, but I am more conscience of it.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">There is no
free lunch. Be prepared to work your ass off to achieve any type of success.
And remember, success is a relative term.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I have
thankfully always known that family comes first. I will never regret the time
I’ve spent with my children, but I can tell you exactly what I’ve missed when I
wasn’t with them.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Give. Whatever
and however you can. No judgements. No rules.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I’ve never been
a big fan of change, but change has pushed me through many doors I thought I’d
never open.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Haters gonna
hate. Their words can hurt us, haunt us, and play with our insecurities. They
make us question, doubt, and perhaps quit. That’s their intent. Do not let it
stop you from trusting your instincts and following your heart. </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">And finally: Laugh more and
complain less. Laugh lines never looked more beautiful. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/life-in-my-40s.html">Life in My 40s</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/vanity-isnt-just-another-piece-of.html">Vanity Isn't Just Another Piece of Furniture</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/08/im-not-ready.html">I'm Not Ready</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-2762803184231471612016-10-24T16:30:00.001-04:002016-10-24T16:30:41.132-04:00A Dream Within a Dream<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Just because I no longer decorate for a living, doesn't mean I've stopped decorating. And the holidays are the perfect time for me to have a little fun and scratch that creative itch. As with Halloween's past, I have pulled together whatever I can find in my home to come up with something fun, spooky, and (to some) a few over the top bits and bobs. Can you figure out what this year's theme is? Hint: The title of the post is a clue. "All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">He is hard at work researching new material for his latest prose. Days and nights are spent pouring over books of the masters before him. How will he top his best work? Perhaps the intricacies of the human bone might unearth a bit of inspiration. The mysteries of the body enrapture his mind, muddled only by the glass of whiskey he keeps close by. A detective novel may be in the making... Have I given away too much?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">His most famous work is a constant reminder of his success, ode partially to Dickens chatty and intensely amusing bird he'd met on more than one occasion. His tales of mystery and macabre keep him sane. Or do they? Be still my beating heart!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Edgar Allen Poe was a writer, poet, and literary critique who dabbled on the dark side of the mind. The Raven and The Tell-Tale Heart are probably his two best known works. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">Inspired by the season<span style="font-family: "Calibri",sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">—</span>and my love of books<span style="font-family: "Calibri",sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">—</span>I created a library table in Mr. Poe's honor. And as I wrote earlier, I rework my decorations and found objects throughout my home each and every Halloween. <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/p/halloween-2016.html">See the details here</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/10/mummys-dinner-invitation.html">Mummy's Dinner Invitation</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/10/haunting-house.html">Haunting the House</a>.</span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-74253482400499075412016-10-21T17:28:00.001-04:002016-10-25T15:48:46.656-04:00Morning Rituals<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I was never a morning person, until I was. If you think you may be turning into a morning person, too, here are some ways to make the best of it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">As I've gotten older, my internal clock has been reset. I find myself waking long before the alarm clock, even when I wish I could get in a few extra winks. Now that I know what I know, I actually prefer it. The house is quiet and I'm able to get a lot done before everyone else in the house is awake. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In fact, the start to a great day is to wake earlier than you need to. The peace and quiet you experience just before the sun has risen gives you the opportunity to just be. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">There is no caffeine involved in my morning routine. I drink water, and if I'm lucky, a glass of lemon water to help detox my system and rehydrate my body. I really feel the key to healthy living is drinking lots of water. Give it a week and see how much better you feel. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Then it's time for a stretch. Stretching your body wakes up your muscles. You don't have to do anything overstimulating, just a few easy yoga poses or simply raise your arms over your head, arch your back, and gracefully swoop down to the floor for a few minutes each day. If you're so inclined, you can start a morning exercise routine as well. Not only will this wake you up, you can check it off your list. I start to wind down sometime around 4:00, so it's imperative that I get exercise in before noon on most days and before the excuses begin. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Listen to music or read. This is your time to do whatever makes your soul sing. Choose carefully. Some days you might want something light and relaxing, while other days you'll want to find something more upbeat and inspiring to jumpstart the day.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I need to eat breakfast. You need to eat breakfast. It really is the most important meal of the day. I suggest something with protein and lots of vitamins. Low-fat yogurt and a banana always works for me, but I also need a few carbs. Remember, you're fueling your body after a long fast.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Before you begin the rest of your day, take a few moments and close your eyes. Sit, relax, even meditate if you so choose. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Now I plan. Out comes the list. Decide what you want to accomplish that day and do it. If your to-do list is anything like mine, you'll want to break it down into manageable chunks. Choose three things that <i>can</i> get done, and do them. Cross off three more things the next day and so on. We can all manage three.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Whether you're headed for work, or it's a Saturday and you have nothing better to do, this new morning routine will make you feel better. Introducing healthy habits, even in the smallest of ways, leads to a happier (healthier) you. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P. S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/hormones.html">Hormones!</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/11/emotional-release.html">Emotional Release</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/08/stress-and-anxiety-triggers.html">Stress and Anxiety Triggers</a>.</span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-41169124984707540952016-10-12T12:56:00.000-04:002016-11-17T11:18:53.124-05:00Totally Crushing Over<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Oh, and the beautiful set design.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">As much as I
appreciate modern amenities and the fabulous design elements of today, I am
hopelessly lost in the past. I’ve had a love affair with late 90s and 2000s interiors
since, well… the late 90s. Once the overdone interiors of the 80s was finally
toned down, we were left with an eclectic mix of both high and low end
materials. It’s a design aesthetic that I’ve held onto all these years later.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Even though Gilmore
Girls premiered in October of 2000, the interiors are an distinct mix of the
two decades. Whether you’re enamored with Lorelai’s comfortable kitsch, or the
wonderfully vintage, yet classic feel of the Dragonfly Inn (my personal favorite),
you can decorate with just about anything and make it work. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Although I
gladly leave behind the cold minimalism of the early 90s, I embrace the return
of bold wallpaper patterns, skirted tables, and brass hardware (antiqued for
me), and I equally embrace the richer, deeper, and warmer colors of the 2000s. This
particular decade was all about putting an individual stamp on your interiors,
and that’s what good design has always been about. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The gorgeous
mix of patterns you’ll see throughout this decade combined toile with florals,
stripes, damask, and plaids layered from piece to piece and room to room. This
look paired well with collectibles that seemed equally thrown together and
carefully planned out. Upcycling became popular, cast-offs were now considered
objects d’art, and crafts became cool with the launch of Etsy in 2005. The
deliberately distressed, mismatched imperfectionism became our new vintage.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Lorelai’s
kitchen embodied the retro look so popular during that time. Remember the
episode when Rory played “house” and dressed up like Donna Reed? Well, Cath
Kidson made the 1950s housewife style new again. Lorelai even traded in her
modest wooden kitchen table for a diner-style yellow Formica version in later
episodes. And don’t even get me started on Sookie’s kitchen at the Dragonfly.
It was love at first sight. Throw in the library and I could live in those two
rooms alone.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Books also play
an important role in the interior. From the aforementioned Dragonfly, to Rory’s
room, and the many libraries and bookstores you’ll encounter on your tour
through Stars Hollow, you’ll amass quite the collection. Books are meant to be
read, but they’re also wonderful <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2013/08/books-books-and-more-books.html">decorating tools</a>. They add color, texture, and
life to any space.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">So grab your quilts and start collecting Magolica plates. Plan your next decorating project to include wainscoting and open and closed shelving. Go ahead and combine painted and natural wood together. Surround your dining room table with bamboo chairs and start your own gourmet inspiration board like Sookie. Then settle in and watch reruns on Netflix while you wait for the return of <a href="http://www.gilmoregirls.net/new-pics-from-the-gilmore-girls-revival-stars-hollow-sets/#lightbox/0/">Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life</a> on November 25th.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Need a little more
inspiration? The best place to find set photos (besides checking out the series on Netflix) is on </span><a href="http://hookedonhouses.net/2010/05/16/gilmore-girls-dragonfly-inn-and-scenes-from-stars-hollow/" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Hooked on Houses</a><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">. Then look no further than </span><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/search/pins/?rs=ac&len=2&q=gilmore%20girls%20interior&etslf=8626&eq=gilmore%20girls%20inte&term_meta[]=gilmore%7Cautocomplete%7C&term_meta[]=girls%7Cautocomplete%7C&term_meta[]=interior%7Cautocomplete%7C"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Pinterest</span></a><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">. Here you’ll find a mix of set
stills along with </span>GG<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> inspired merchandise like this </span><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/257968351/lukes-diner-vintage-retro-style-poster?ref=shop_home_active_2" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Luke’s Diner poster</a><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">. These two sites have already chosen a few goodies for you to get the ball rolling </span><a href="http://www.elledecor.com/celebrity-style/a7136/get-the-look-gilmoregirls/" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">here</a><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> and </span><a href="https://myfriendstaci.com/2016/08/16/gilmore-girls-living-room/" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">here</a><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">. And BH&Gs insight on what today's GG house might look like <a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/decorating-style/style-lessons-we-learned-from-gilmore-girls-281474979462904/">here</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Just like the
current trends of interiors start in the world of fashion, television and film
has always been an incredible source of inspiration. Just take a look at all
<a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2010/01/nancys-kitchens.html">Nancy Meyers</a> has done for the fashion and home décor market with her impressive
lineup of <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/totally-crushing-over_28.html">films</a>. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/03/gilmore-girls-revival-revealed.html">Gilmore Girls Revival Revealed</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/02/dining-room-love.html">Dining Room Love</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2013/08/books-books-and-more-books.html">Books, Books, and More Books</a>, and more <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/search?q=totally+crushing+over">Totally Crushing Over</a> posts. </span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-65873681904581491572016-10-04T11:51:00.001-04:002016-10-06T10:33:04.462-04:00I Love a Good Read<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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in a bookstore. When I enter, I feel equal parts excitement and anxiety. I am
giddy with the possibility of what I’ll find, and overwhelmed by those same
possibilities. There are so many books to choose from. And if you like a wide
variety of genres, the choices grow exponentially. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">If you love to
read, supporting your habit is a costly endeavor as well, especially if you buy
a new release. And if you’re like me, you’ll have a compulsion to buy both the
hard and soft cover versions you deem exceptional and worthy enough to hold a
place on your bookshelf while simultaneously stashing the other in the car to
read any time you’d like. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Enter the
second-hand bookstore. I've been meaning to read several classics, but not
willing to make the investment buying new copies. Every time I go to visit Amanda in RI, I am smitten by the over-crowded shelves and floors at <a href="http://www.abgbooks.com/">Allison B.Goodsell Rare Books</a>. I was able to gift a friend one of my favorite books and
chose two titles by Elizabeth Strout for myself. Last weekend, David and I browsed
in town at the <a href="http://peterboroughtownlibrary.org/kyessage/">Kyes-Sage Bookstore</a>, and <a href="http://www.toadbooks.com/welcome">The Toadstool</a>, saving a small fortune
while finding a few titles we were looking for in excellent condition. You see,
I’ve become book-buying shy. At one time, I wouldn’t think twice about
purchasing a brand new book I truly wanted. Books are my luxury item, and I would rather
buy them than anything else. But lately, I’ve been disappointed with several “best-sellers”.
A list I usually avoid to a fault. I’ve actually returned a few books over the
last couple of months, knowing my money would be better spent elsewhere. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Now I’m back to
reading authors who have proven to me that no matter what they write, I know
I’m sure to like it much better. (And giving those second-hand bookstores more
of my attention.) Because of this, I’ve added a new feature to the blog. Each
month or so, I will post a book I’m either reading or recommend that you read. But
don’t take my word for it. Research it. Read the description—about the book and
the author—and make up your own mind. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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see this month’s pick on the right of your screen. If you haven’t already read Alice
Hoffman’s book, <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/practical-magic-alice-hoffman/1100361670?ean=9780425190371">Practical Magic</a>, please do. If you’re a fan of the movie, fair
warning, it’s very different. But Hoffman’s lyrically written prose should win
you over as she is an incredible storyteller. And since it’s October, continue
this bewitching theme by reading <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/lace-reader-brunonia-barry/1100557608?ean=9780061624773">The Lace Reader</a> and <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/witchs-daughter-paula-brackston/1100353741?ean=9781250004086">The Witch's Daughter</a>. Both,
very good books well worth your time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/01/what-are-you-reading.html">What Are You Reading?</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/03/there-are-lot-of-books-1000-words.html">There Are a Lot of Books!</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">To find a used bookseller in your area, <a href="http://www.usedbooks101.com/">click here</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">And if you find your way over to a Barnes and Noble, you can receive % off your purchase through October 10th using the code BNFRIEND at checkout online, or use <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/promos/bn-promo.jsp?cid=3ef00&sourceId=L000022533&st=EML&2sid=161006_FF_COU_H_FRIENDS_FAMILY_TEASE&sid=COU&hConversionEventId=AQEAAZQF2gAmdjIwMDAwMDE1Ny05OTU2LWE2N2MtOGZkOC1mOGY0YmJiZjUxNDjaACQ1ZjgxYzNlYi1mOGI3LTQ2OWItMDAwMC0wMjFlZjNhMGJjY2HaACQwOTNiODFkYi1hMmRiLTQ1ZjktYjE2Ny0yMjc4NTVkNmI5OTZ6uOmtys7JXPHqB0dYeMLujddXmT_Uo0BNw9bhU8Ej_w">this coupon</a> at stores. </span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-1251214091541971662016-09-27T12:11:00.001-04:002016-11-17T11:17:58.842-05:00Vanity Isn't Just Another Piece of Furniture<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I went to high
school in the 80s. Permed hair, lots of make-up, and going to school in a
well-chosen (i.e., trendy) outfit was a given. I got up at 5:00 am to shower,
blow/kink/style my hair, put on my face, and eat breakfast before I caught the
school bus at 6:30. I brought my precious bottle of Indian Earth with me to
school and religiously reapplied it throughout the day. Now that’s what I call
commitment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Twenty-odd
years later—not so much. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Of course, if I
sleep until 5:00 am, I’m eternally grateful these days. So, there’s that. And I
usually shower at night, so there is no unnecessary hair styling in the morning.
I stopped perming and gave in to my stick-straight locks long ago. Since I work mostly from home, as long as I’m clean, dressed, and
partially groomed—using 80s excess as my yardstick—I’m good to go. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">However, a
funny thing happens when you get older. You care more, and less, about how you
look. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I used to dye
my hair—for fun. Now I dye it to hide the gray. I never over-plucked my
eyebrows, never “shaped” them, or thinned them to excess (thank God), but now I’m
reaching for eyebrow gel. My eyebrows have thinned and lightened over the
years, and I prefer the way they used to look, so I’ve added it to my leaving-the-house
look. And lipstick. In all these years, I’ve never left the house without
lipstick. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I became enamored
with lipstick when I used to watch my grandmother put it on. Every day, she
would reach for a gold cylinder and carefully apply a peachy, pink hue—the tip of
it perfectly shaped to her mouth. My mother never wore lipstick. But like wine
and a good stiff cocktail, lipstick was just another one of life’s little luxuries I
would someday covet thanks to my grandmother. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">In my 20s, I
was still rocking the trends to some extent—I found “my look”, my signature
scent, and had an unusual affinity for anything red. And what can you really say
about a 20-something face. You’d kill for it today.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">By the time I
was in my late 30s, I felt free enough to leave behind the fully made-up face. My
skin was still youthful enough, but it could now breathe. And the hair. Again,
in its now deflated state, a quick blow-out was all I needed. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Enter my early
40s. Grooming rituals had become a thing of the past. Stretchy pants and
comfortable shoes were all I wanted. Well, that and comfy PJs, too. It just
wasn’t a good time for me, so it reflected in my face, literally. I didn’t
care. And it showed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">When I reached
my mid-40s, things started to shift. <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2013/10/rain-or-shine.html">I got healthy</a>. I bought clothes again. At
good stores. I found a talented stylist and got my hair done. I started
dressing more youthfully, but tastefully. I even broke out a few classics from
my 20s that fit once again. I was back.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Today, I care
less about how I look and more about how I feel. Because, let’s face it, if you
feel good, you look good. I don’t give a fig about fashion trends, and I feel
more comfortable in my body, even when I complain about it. I’ve earned every
wrinkle and gray hair. Only now, I put in more effort to look like the best version of <i>me </i>I can
pull together.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. A partial selfie—I went with blonde streaks this past summer. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/09/hormones.html">Hormones</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/life-in-my-40s.html">Life in My 40s</a>, and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/are-you-late-bloomer.html">Are You a Late Bloomer</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-62717158138028957372016-09-20T11:37:00.000-04:002016-09-21T06:25:57.486-04:00Week Three of the Empty Nest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">We dropped the
girls off on Labor Day. Two weeks yesterday. This is week three. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">It was my idea
not to pick up or see the girls until three weeks in. I felt they needed to get
settled, get used to their familiar, yet unfamiliar surroundings, once again. David
and I needed to take a deep breath and reclaim the house—and our sanity.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">As anyone who
has packed up children for college can tell you, it’s a never-ending ordeal. And the lists! No
matter how organized you are, you’re bound to miss something on the list. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">This year, Amanda
moved into a single room in a suite of ten rooms. It has plenty of space, good
light, and the building is near all of her academic buildings. But the
extra-long twin sheets we had to buy for her Freshman dorm wasn’t going to work
on her new double bed. We split up—Amanda and I kept unpacking, while David and
Kate went off in search of decent sheets 30 minutes away.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">And then
there’s the emotional unpacking. What will this school year be like? Will I
like where I live? Never mind the ordeal of leaving behind all of the things
that bring you comfort, grounding, support. The first day of school (or
anything) is the first day of school, regardless of how old you are. There’s a
mixture of fear and excitement that sends your stomach into somersaults and addles
the brain. For the parents, too.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The group texts
began the moment one was dropped off and the other was on her way. Last minute
things we weren’t able to get were added to a list or became the responsibility
of the one left behind.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Thankfully, the girls
have found their footing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Kate is
understandably exhausted—teaching full-time with a full load of classes each
week—but she loves the school she’s been placed at, the children, and the
teachers. She gets to walk through parts of the city that were once only
explored for fun. We envy those walks every time she Snapchats a picture of another mouth-watering pastry, imagining the delicious smells that waft through the
neighborhood. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">To say Amanda
loves her room is a vast understatement. The deep blue accent wall matches her
bedding perfectly. And her room is always clean, clean, clean. Something she
couldn’t quite pull off last year with her messy roommate underfoot. She hit a
snag when she had to add/drop a class, but it’s all good. Her suite has a
kitchen, so she’s cooking for herself for the first time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">For us…well,
the house is <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/cleaning-is-my-therapy_10.html">very clean</a>. We purged and organized our basement, I’ve been
deep-cleaning closets and cabinets, and we’ve managed to tackle a few outdoor
projects. The list of things to do will always remain a list, but you get the
idea. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">We’re managing.
<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">It’s hard to
let go each year. No matter how much practice I have under my belt, each year
is different. Each year brings new challenges. And each year, as they both get
older, brings reality closer to the surface. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">But, no matter
how much grumbling I do (and I do a lot) before, during, and after, I have to
remember to take a deep breath, stop my whining, count my lucky stars, and
cherish this time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/02/romance-is-alive-and-well.html">Romance is Alive and Well</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/its-been-quite-week.html">It's Been Quite a Week</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-33039611846317016142016-09-13T12:15:00.001-04:002016-09-13T22:11:04.223-04:00The Anatomy of a Writer<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The writing
process is different for everyone. Those articles you read, those words of
advice from authors you cleave to, need to be filed away as research. It’s only
opinion. Strategies that worked for them, and sometimes only them. And just
like them, mine is only another opinion.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">When I write
non-fiction, I prepare an outline. I decide what information should be included
and in what order. I make a list of things I need to research, then factor in
my own knowledge, and begin. I organize everything into chapters and chapter
titles. For me, it’s a very distinct process.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">When I write
creative non-fiction, I simply pick a subject and write. I write what I know
and make notes of anything I don’t. If research is required, I usually start
this process towards the middle or the end of the piece. It’s important to me
to write down my thoughts and feelings on the subject first, then back it up
(if necessary) with any “facts”. It really depends on how deeply I’m going to cover the
subject, or how intimately I’m attached to the project to decide if research is
even necessary. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Now the biggie:
fiction.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I do not plot.
I do not outline. My stories are character-driven, so a character sketch is the
only thing I draft before I begin the writing process. I make notes about where
and when the story will begin, where it will go, and possibly where it will end
up. But that’s it. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">My characters
write the story. I may be the vessel they use, but they decide what’s going to
happen, what they’re going to say, and how they will get in and out of a
situation. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I don’t know
how the story ends (even if I guess) because I don’t know what they’re going to
do until they do it. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">All I can tell
you is that it’s like having a movie projector in my head. I can see, hear,
smell, and taste everything that’s happening. I am in the room. I am in that
body. I feel and empathize. I am a man and then I am a woman. I am young. I am
old. I am learning and doing everything my character is learning and doing at
any given time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">That’s my
process. It’s a strange and wondrous thing writing fiction. I didn’t think I
could do it. Until I did. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Is that all
there is? Well, I have a note app on my phone where I keep thoughts, snippets of
dialogue, and ideas. I have a slew of notebooks where I write more of the same,
along with paragraphs and phrases. I use these tools to get started, keep me on
track, and edit. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">But regardless of
what I’m writing about, the point is, I’m always writing. Always. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">There are no
days off. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Does that mean
that I clock in an 8-hour work day? No. Some days I only write down those
thoughts and ideas. Other days, my butt is firmly planted in front of my
computer where I sit and write for as long as it takes to work out an idea, or
hit a particular work count, or when my brain freezes and my characters or the
story just needs to rest. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">When I’m not
writing. I’m thinking about writing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I had planned
on a full day of editing yesterday, but the words just wouldn’t come. I got up
and decided to work around the house. Physical activity helps my brain focus on
other things and ultimately allows the words to come back to me organically.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">And there it
was. The words and ideas I needed for the Epilogue I wasn’t sure I was going to
write. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I tell you all
of this because I wish I had someone tell me these things during the years I spent spinning my wheels and “learning” how to write instead of just writing. Knowledge
is power, but you can only learn so much before you actually have to go to work
and just do it. Put pen to paper, fingers to keyboard, and write. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Just write. </span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/11/what-do-you-want-to-know-my-take-on.html">My Take on Writing</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/search/label/1000%20words">1000 Words</a>.</span></div>
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<br />Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-65080775327418522422016-09-06T16:19:00.001-04:002016-09-08T16:22:51.756-04:00Hormones!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">This not being old, sort of being old thing is so much fun.
I’m too old to have a baby (socially, mentally), but I’m
too young to be free from worrying about pregnancy. My body (and my mind) is in
flux. I’m traveling through a wonderfully, glorious time in my life dubbed, perimenopause.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When we reach our early or pre-teens, we’re plagued with a
monthly siege of pain and discomfort that ushers us into womanhood. We
experience raging hormones and PMS—Pissed at Men Syndrome for some, Premenstrual
Syndrome to others. Then, for the next 35-odd years (and roughly 455 periods), we
spend that time either trying to, or trying not to get pregnant. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When you’re done making that decision, and life rolls merrily
along, your body kind of reverses itself. And Bam! Hormones! Again! Only this
time, they’re not the oh-that-boy-is-so-cute-I-can’t-stand-it kind, but
something entirely different. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Visits to my doctor now include talks about my cycle. Am I
tired, moody, anxious, sleeping well? Am I experiencing night sweats, vaginal dryness,
or a low libido? Now let’s hop on that scale. Shall we? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Perimenopause can last between 5 and 10 years as the
estrogen in your body makes its slow exit. Going to bed at 9:00 and waking at
4:00 becomes normal. Your monthly “friend” isn’t as friendly as she once was
because you never know if she’s coming, how long she’ll stay, or what kind of
mood she’ll be in. You’re hot, then cold, then hot again. And… well, I’ll spare
you any further details. When I first read the book Our Bodies, Ourselves, I
think they glossed over this part. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But the best part, the ultimate kick in the pants, is that
your brain becomes foggier than any coastal town. We’re all doing too much, and
it’s normal to be forgetful, but this is different. Where did I put my glasses?
Did I just say something? Why did I come in here? These are normal, everyday occurrences
that frustrate me to no end. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">This is the reward we get for YEARS of wearing a sweatshirt
around your middle because of an accident, of running off to the nurse’s office
during school because you think you’re dying, of buying several sets of clothes
throughout your life to fit over a bulging middle (pregnant or not), and of keeping
companies who manufacture the products we desperately need each and every month in
champagne and caviar. Forget gold. Invest in feminine products!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I’m told that once I reach my mid-fifties, things will be
good again. Those nasty little hormones apparently fade into the background,
sated and giggling the whole time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/life-in-my-40s.html">Life in My 40s</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/08/stress-and-anxiety-triggers.html">Stress and Anxiety Triggers</a>.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-31584278967745225752016-08-30T12:49:00.000-04:002016-08-31T17:35:32.584-04:00Past, Present, and Future<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I have become extremely
nostalgic lately. With the passing of another generational icon yesterday (the
incomparable Gene Wilder - actor/comedian/writer), I can recall a conversation David
and I started having just last week. “We are in for some sad times ahead.” I
remembered saying, and he concurred. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">As each year
passes, we are reminded of just how short life is. Family gatherings were a
time of celebration and happiness, and now—some of them are not. We are brought
together to bear the burden of loss, of heartache. We look to the faces still
present, thankful for each and every one. Blessed by each and every memory we can summon.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The fabric of
our family is embroidered with treasured memories that sustain me to this day.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Although I grew
up with just one sister, my many cousins lived in the same town, or close by,
and we spent holidays, birthdays, and other celebrations together. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I remember
cramming in next to my cousins on my grandmother’s couch on Christmas Eve, each
of us donning our Sunday best and nibbling on treats as the adults carried on
in various parts of the house. Near Halloween, my sister and I would shuffle
through the woods as we watched our cousins try to scare the life out of us during
their annual ghost walk. 4<sup>th</sup> of Julys, BBQs, Barbie doll birthday
cakes, making whirlpools in the pool, wearing winter coats at the ice rink in
July, pizza parties and scary movies, older cousins in charge of the younger
ones, bible camp, drive-in theaters. There is an endless supply and each one
can be played back in my mind with such vivid detail.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Photo albums
are crammed with even more memories. Some black and white. Some yellow and
faded. I compare chins, noses, hair color, and our crazy clothes. We share
blood, a wise-ass sense of humor, the will to keep going, doing, being,
inventing, creating. Forging through life no matter what it throws our way. We’re
a sturdy stock, regardless of how each of us may feel about that particular moniker. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">My father just
recently gave me a very large box. Our lineage has been researched and
documented and I am its new keeper and guardian. My heart lurches every time I
see our name emblazoned on another record or piece of paper. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I have great
plans to hang these framed artifacts alongside family photos. I will do this to
honor the past and be mindful of the present. To share our family history with
whomever wishes to stop and take the time to read bold script written on
aged parchment, or gaze upon the many faces of loved ones who are no longer with
us, and of those who still are. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">This collection
will grow and be nurtured by my own children in the future, and I will gladly
share these with other family members who wish to take this particular journey
back in history with their own families.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The past has a
way of pulling us into the future. To allow us to chart our own course. To
embrace where we came from and decide where we can go. To be at peace. We need
to hold onto those memories with as much clarity and tenderness and love we can
possible piece together, if only for the briefest of moments. We need to share
these memories to keep<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><span class="textexposedshow">them alive, and nurture them to keep these memories from
leaving us.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. I'm the tall dorky looking one in the matching dress.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/its-been-quite-week.html">It's Been Quite a Week</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/08/family-celebrating-family.html">Family Celebrating Family</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-20124432581920360412016-08-23T14:38:00.004-04:002016-08-25T18:06:02.996-04:00I'm Not Ready<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">The girls are both
at work right now<span style="font-size: 14.6667px; line-height: 15.6933px;">. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Their last work week of the summer. Next week, they’re all
mine, albeit for just one more. We plan to get our hair done, troll bookstores,
watch silly movies, discuss books, and the inevitable fact that school is,
literally, just around the corner.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">We’re not
ready.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I’ll be spending
Labor Day hauling boxes and bags; hanging pictures and wiring lamps;
picking up boxes of books and stocking refrigerators; driving mile after mile
after mile to drop my girls off at their respective schools, and walking out of
their buildings, missing them before I’ve left the parking lot. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Kate is a
senior this year. We already know the day she will graduate. Two days after she
moves in, she’ll receive her tassel at convocation. I had just gotten used to
her being a college student, yet here we are, at another precipice, another milestone.
The question of when she’ll be attending graduate school is on all of our
minds. She’ll be teaching full-time while simultaneously juggling a full-load of classes fall
semester.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">Amanda is
moving in to a single room amongst both male and female roommates. David is not
amused. She will continue her research on the variations in parasite abundance
between urban and natural populations of anoles. I don’t pretend to understand;
I just know she’s doing some pretty cool stuff under the tutelage of one of the
university's leading researchers. She’ll have her car on campus this year. She’s
decided to pursue a pre-med track and double her workload.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">We’re not
ready.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">As I marvel at
all they have accomplished so far, I am very aware of what lies ahead. I have
already lived my version of their lives. It’s not easy, but the rewards are
well worth the effort. I know this. They know this. But it doesn’t make it any
less challenging all the way around.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I dreaded them
leaving high school, and now, I’m dreading what comes next. Not because I don’t
want them to succeed and move forward with their lives</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I want all of that for them and
more</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">it’s just that I have finally found </span><i style="font-family: arial, sans-serif;">my</i><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> way. I’ve learned how to live this new existence somewhat fractured by changes that are unavoidably inevitable.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">We’ve already
given Kate her graduation present. We took a trip last January knowing it might have been one of the last opportunities we’d be able to, as a family. We’re grasping at fragments
of time, too precious to be ignored. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">I know the
reality is not nearly as frightening as the anticipation, of not knowing. I’ve
been down this road before. I will ring my hands, make endless lists, repeat
myself again and again to make sure the two of them have everything they could ever need. And then
they’ll be off on their own once again.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">But I’m not
ready.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/09/its-been-quite-week.html">It's Been Quite a Week</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/12/a-surprising-twist.html">A Surprising Twist</a>.</span></div>
Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-73941971440767708122016-08-12T10:52:00.001-04:002016-08-12T17:55:03.297-04:00Setting Realistic Goals<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For more than a year, I got down on the floor every morning and did yoga. I loved it. My body loved it. But like so many other things in life, it got pushed aside. Time moved on and before I knew it, I had stopped doing it. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Of all of the exercises I have tried, loved, and hated, <i><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/02/yoga.html">yoga</a></i> was one I enjoyed immensely. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">While I was away, I managed to slip in a class on the beach. It's heavenly, and if you ever get a chance to take one of these classes, do! The sand is a perfect platform for yoga</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">you can dig your feet or heals in the sand and it contours perfectly to your body. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">My goal was to attend one class a week. I only made it to one. I thought it was a realistic goal; I could manage one class a week. But it wasn't meant to be. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I have beaten myself up for not keeping the same rigorous exercise schedule I had stubbornly adhered to (for more than two years!) more times than I can count. I had worked my body so hard, I injured my hip. Then when I was "recuperating" (read: not getting off the couch), I injured my rotator cuff shoveling snow because I had been too inactive. I had to go through another period of recovery. And on and on it went. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The bottom line is, we all get busy, injured, tired, and we may not make it to the gym as many times as we'd like. We may slack off, take a break, eat more than we move, and make excuses. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But the body is resilient. You can get back to a routine</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">albeit a bit slower this time around</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">because muscle memory is alive and well in your brain. It remembers what it feels like after your body has gone through a workout. That feeling of accomplishment and euphoria you get as endorphins pump through your system. Then all of a sudden, you remember that the gain far outweighs the pain. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I may still be shy of <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/the-freshman-fifteen.html">my goals</a>, but I've given myself the time to reach them. As my body ages, it doesn't bounce back quite the same way, but that's okay. I try not to make excuses, I try to take it one day at a time, setting realistic goals that don't drive me crazy. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/04/the-benefits-of-lemon-water.html">The Benefits of Lemon Water</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/11/emotional-release.html">Emotional Release</a>, and these <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/beautifulliving/good-health/">Good Health</a> pins.</span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-48099056699567133482016-08-09T12:32:00.003-04:002016-08-09T12:52:37.785-04:00Summer Vacation Reading Contest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Eight years ago, I started our annual summer reading contest while on vacation. I won handily that year, but only because my daughters were just 10 and 13 at the time. However, this year, I won again for only the second time! It took me seven years, 3,306 pages, and 10 books to do it, but I did. Again, in all fairness, those 3000+ pages weren't even the most read in the history of our contest. Amanda holds that honor. She read 4,222 pages four years ago. So I take my victory in stride, knowing full well that it will be a long time before it happens again.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So what did we read? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">The picture above belongs to Kate and is a sampling of what she devoured in July. She loves fantasy and dystopian novels, and she highly recommends <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-dead-house-dawn-kurtagich/1121002326?ean=9780316298674"><i>The</i> <i>Dead House</i></a> from this year's picks. "It's not your usual novel.", she told me, and then proceeded to show me all of the graphics the book included. I won't spoil it for you, just check it out. Her all-time favorites are the <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/great-and-terrible-beauty-libba-bray/1100292394?ean=9780385732314">Gemma Doyle</a></i> trilogy, <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/delirium-lauren-oliver/1100151138?ean=9780061726835">Delirium</a> trilogy, </i>and <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/before-i-fall-lauren-oliver/1100151137?ean=9780061726811">Before I Fall</a></i>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I took along a mix of fiction and non-fiction, but ended up only starting <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/eat-pray-love-made-me-do-it-various/1123389149?ean=9780399576775">Eat Pray Love Made Me Do It</a></i>. I'm about half way through, and I've found some of the essays inspiring. A scant 221 pages long, Anne Rivers Siddon's <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-girls-of-august-anne-rivers-siddons/1113742215?ean=9780446698313">The Girls of August</a></i> was a quick, delightful read. I had zero expectations, but enjoyed it thoroughly. I only read three books from <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/03/2016-springsummer-reading-list.html">this list</a>, and I was disappointed in all three. I usually don't read popular books right away</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">the hype is usually too much</span><span style="font-family: "calibri" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 107%;">—</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">but I waited for one to come out in paperback, and it didn't wow me (or scare me) like I thought it would. I'll leave it at that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Amanda recommends <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-unexpected-everything-morgan-matson/1122714271?ean=9781481404549">The Unexpected Everything</a></i>. She enjoys realistic fiction and cites <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/02/book-lovers-night-out.html">Jodi Picoult</a> as one of her favorite authors. She fell in love with <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/summer-i-turned-pretty-jenny-han/1100329791?ean=9781416968290">The Summer I Turned Pretty</a></i> trilogy years ago, and has read it more times than she cares to admit. The last book is her all-time favorite. I finally read it last summer and I agree. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">While we were away, we visited several local bookstores, which are really the hidden jewels of the book industry. It's interesting to learn which books are selling better locally, and most of the recommendations you receive from the staff is spot on. To be read: <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/a-man-called-ove-fredrik-backman/1117313627?ean=9781476738024">A Man Called Ove</a></i> and <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-last-summer-of-the-camperdowns-elizabeth-kelly/1113068765?ean=9780871407450">The Last Summer of the Camperdowns</a></i>. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Both Kate and Michael have copies of <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/harry-potter-and-the-cursed-child-parts-i-ii-j-k-rowling/1123463689?ean=9781338099133">The Cursed Child</a></i>, but neither has read it yet. I'm waiting to hear their reviews before I decide whether or not I'll read it. For me, Harry Potter ended with book 7. We ALL list HP as some of our all-time favorite books. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">It's amazing how much you can read when you don't watch television. Yup, no TV on our 4-week vacation. And very little technology all the way around. I snuck off to write on my laptop a few times, and with the release of Pokemon Go, well... the girls did use their phones. But in all fairness, the phones were mostly silent and pocketed away.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I highly recommend taking a technology break and use that time to read!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/delicious-reads-delicious.html">Delicious Reads</a> and <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/04/childrens-books.html">Children's Books</a>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A shout out to our favorite local bookstores while on vacation: <a href="http://yellowumbrellabooks.net/">Yellow Umbrella Books</a>, <a href="http://www.brewsterbookstore.com/">The Brewster Bookstore</a>, and <a href="http://www.edgartownbooks.com/">Edgartown Books</a>.</span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-58735372012477864382016-06-28T13:00:00.000-04:002016-09-08T16:24:43.583-04:00Good-bye... For Now<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Summer vacation has begun! Thank you all for hanging in there. I will be up to my usual tricks towards the end of the summer. I'm looking forward to writing more about <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/search/label/life%20in%20my%2040s">Life in My 40s</a> and getting back to a regular blogging schedule when I return in August. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Much progress as been made on my new project, and with any luck, the blog will be moved and I can tell you more about it when I return. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In the meantime, I hope you have a glorious summer!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">P.S. You may also like...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2011/06/may-summer-last-hundred-years.html">May Summer Last a Hundred Years</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/03/2016-springsummer-reading-list.html">2016 Summer Reading List</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2011/09/scenes-from-around-new-england-goodbye.html">Scenes From Around New England</a> (a.k.a. where I'll be hanging out)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2015/05/chatham-best-beach-towns-in-america.html">Chatham</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2014/07/10-things-to-do-in-july.html">10 Things to do in July</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Boston winters may be long, but once the trees leaf out, the grass turns green, and the sun warms your face, it's time to head outdoors and enjoy the many parks and green spaces now available. But on those rainy days that force you inside, there are lots of things to do in and out of the city, and thanks to the <a href="http://www.highlandstreet.org/">Highland Street Foundation</a>, you can get into museums, zoos, and gardens for FREE every Friday starting on June 24th. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">June 24th: <a href="https://www.bso.org/Performance/Listing?brands=6427&gclid=CLai5Or1i80CFRJbhgodK08Eyw">Tanglewood</a>'s Family Fun Fest</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 1st: <a href="http://www.bostonchildrensmuseum.org/?gclid=CMn48OGYjM0CFVBZhgodjHoB8w">Boston Children's Museum</a> or <a href="http://www.capecodmaritimemuseum.org/">Cape Cod Maritime Museum</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 8th: <a href="http://www.mfa.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=google-grant&utm_content=museum-of-fine-arts-homepage&utm_campaign=whats-new&gclid=CJqH3pKZjM0CFUYehgodeYgJDw">Museum of Fine Arts</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 15th: <a href="http://www.bostonathenaeum.org/">Boston Anthenaeum</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 22nd: <a href="http://www.bostonharborislands.org/">Boston Harbor Islands National and State Park</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">July 29th: <a href="http://www.nha.org/sites/">Nantucket Whaling Museum</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">August 5th: <a href="http://www.rosekennedygreenway.org/visit/greenway-carousel/">The Greenway Carousel</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">August 12th: <a href="http://www.concordmuseum.org/">Concord Museum</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">August 19th: <a href="https://www.icaboston.org/">The Institute of Contemporary Art</a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">August 26th: <a href="http://www.nrm.org/?gclid=COTR48aajM0CFcskhgodPYMDpg">Norman Rockwell Museum</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Enjoy!</span>Kimberly Merritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10920220732454354268noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4103578982425729016.post-31419292582886844872016-06-02T13:01:00.001-04:002016-06-02T13:01:51.470-04:00Updated Classics<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you haven't done so already, please add <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/eligible-curtis-sittenfeld/1122502572?ean=9781400068326"><i>Eligible</i></a> to your <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/03/2016-springsummer-reading-list.html">summer reading list</a>. I love all things Jane Austen, and this version of a modern day <i>Pride and Prejudice</i> will make you fall in love with a whole new Bennet family. (I adored Emma Thompson's screenplay of <i>Sense and Sensibility</i>. See the movie!) </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There seems to be a trend among writers who are reinventing the classics (something akin to movie makers looking to books for material) that's grabbing a whole new audience of readers. Maybe it's because the characters are more believable when placed in a contemporary setting, or perhaps we just can't get enough of a good thing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Look for Ann Tyler's <i><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/vinegar-girl-anne-tyler/1122650744?ean=9780804141260">Vinegar Girl</a></i> (The Taming of the Shrew with an absent-minded professor and responsible teacher in charge of her family's daily affairs.), Gillian's Flynn's <i>Hamlet</i>, Jo Nesbo's <i>Macbeth</i>, and Margaret Atwood's <i>The Tempest</i>. All from a series of Shakespeare remakes from the Penguin Random House Group. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I read a book years ago titled, <a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/queen-bees-wannabes-rosalind-wiseman/1113137184?ean=9781400047925">Queen Bees and Wannabes</a>. In
it, the author talks about the roles girls play, whether they like it or not,
and includes tips for parents on how to help their daughters through the trials
of Girl World. (If you want a quick fix instead, watch the movie Mean Girls.) <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Because I am a girl, and I have given birth to two girls, I
can say this without bias: girls are a pain in the ass. The drama that
follows girls around is like a loyal puppy—it never goes away! And it starts
younger and younger these days. We’ve all had to deal with versions of the Mean
Girl throughout our lives. Some of us got through it fairly unscathed, while
others were imprisoned. I can’t imagine dealing with the latter; the stories
I’ve heard from other mothers and their daughters is downright terrifying. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But even with the subtler dealings girls endure: whispers,
snide looks, insults, gossip…these transgressions can instantly rip away the solid
foundation of anyone having to deal with ordinary day to day life, which as we
all know is hard enough. Girls will always have to work harder than boys for
equal pay and recognition. I hope that before I die, this will finally be a
non-issue. This is just one reason we should all be in this together, not
battling it out on the playground. (The war of the “working mom” versus the
“stay at home mom” should have been settled long ago. Personally, I’ve always
thought the term “working mom” was redundant. Every mom works, regardless if
it’s at an office or at home. Period. Please, let’s MOVE ON from this.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But there’s another sad reality involved: Some things never
change no matter how old you get. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Girls grow up to be women. But that doesn’t mean they grow
out of being a Mean Girl. And then they have daughters. Like Bobbsey Twins, mother/daughter mean girls
are leaders of their pack. There are thousands of mini-me’s following in the
footsteps of their first teachers. They’ve learned how to lie, cheat, and beam
their false smiles at the world with absolute pride and prejudice because they
learned how at the foot of the masters.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">These women have had decades of experience, and from my personal
experience, cleave onto their daughters because they’re truly the only friends
they have left. Adults usually don’t put up with this nonsense, but that
doesn’t keep it from occurring. Worse still, they usually focus their attention
on the very girls their daughters have already targeted. They’ve transgressed
to their former selves and relish in the same childish antics they should have
left behind long ago. The targets have doubled.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Words, one of my favorite things in the whole world, can do more
damage psychologically than almost anything. The old adage “if you don’t have
anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” rings more true today than it
ever has. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Girls are their own worst enemies. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But they don't have to be.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I have been blogging regularly for the past three years. I
enjoy sharing ideas and stories, and as I wrote in my <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/p/about.html">bio</a>, this
is my place to remember and reflect. But I haven’t been happy with my blog
platform for a long time now. As with all money decisions, I had to weigh the
pros and cons of investing in a new one. Every time I did some research I was
quoted outrageous prices, some as much as $10,000. Instead, I used my money to
update its look, just a little, then a little more. I ran into a few mishaps
along the way, namely a very unprofessional “web designer” who never fulfilled her
promise. I had to change companies mid-stream and thankfully found a firm that
could work with me and my budget. The money I wasted could have been used to
make the switch. I moved on. I could at least update my writing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Since I began blogging, I have switched things up a bit. What was
once a design blog morphed into a lifestyle blog, and then, in my opinion,
something a bit more than the usual lifestyle blog. As I started to focus on
one aspect of my career (while the others started to fade into the background)
I wanted the blog to follow along. I got excited about writing more in-depth
and personal posts about motherhood, family, and various series about writing
and the stages of the empty nest, to name just two. I have always been inspired by Anna Quindlen so
I just recently starting writing a new series titled <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/search/label/life%20in%20my%2040s">Life in My 40s</a>. I realized that several of my posts fit under this umbrella, since....I've been writing these posts while in my 40s. I prefer
the direction the blog is headed. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I’ve played around with topics, scheduling, and formatting
until I found something I felt would be a good fit for all of my readers, and
for me as well. But the blog also did something else. It filled a void. It
allowed me to escape into the world of words I had missed so dearly. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But I am at a crossroads.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I’ve decided to take a small step back from my blog to work
on a project I have wanted to finish for years. I have always been the kind of
person who takes care of everyone else’s needs before my own: my children,
family, work, and you, my readers. But I need to do this one thing just for me.
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">For now, I’m going to blog weekly when my schedule allows.
I’m not going to worry about adhering to a strict schedule; it will simply happen
organically, like when I first began. I will continue writing series and niche
posts I hope will satisfy us both. I may want to bring in new writers to help
fill the gaps, or I may decide not to. I’m not quite sure just yet. My goal is
to still switch platforms, but this won’t happen until late spring (at the
earliest) and soon after that, I’ll be heading off to my home away from home in
June. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Changes are occurring and I’m going wherever the wind may
blow.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">By next fall, I should be back in the swing of things. Or
maybe I’ll try the slide instead. Either way, this blog isn’t disappearing,
it’s just <a href="http://www.beautifullivingblog.com/2016/04/are-you-late-bloomer.html">evolving</a> as each and every one of us is doing each and
every day. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I hope you’ll come along for the ride. Thank you for your
continued support and thank you for reading.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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